Blaming others is flaming yourself !

Stop Blaming Others, fault is in yourself.

   Life is a game either you can win or you can lose it is up to you what will you select. If you'll make a strategy and follow it the success is your fate otherwise it will be a defeat. 

Don't to be a little bitch!

    Always admit your fault and move on. Let us elaborate the above verse clearly. No one among us will like whiners, crybabies and the victims. Everyone will like the those who take big actions. But everyone cries while taking big decisions.
Now come to the definition of success:

It is not something that happens to you but it something that happens because of you.

   Anything that happens in someones life is due to himself either it is good or bad. If it is good it is by you or it is bad again it is due to you. It is a fact that when something happens well everyone is ready to receive the applause but when it is a defeat then no one is ready to admit that it is his fault. Here we behave like victims.
   Now the question is that who are the victims. A victim is one that never agrees to admit his fault. He always blame others.
Actually the victim is one that never take responsibility and flee from taking responsibility.

   Lets take an example of a video game. When you start playing the game you must know about the strategy; How to play? If you know how to play then you will be a winner otherwise you will lose the game. Here the the victim will be a person that will have no strategy and in the end it blame the opponent.
A victim often says that: "Something bad happens to me every time."
A victim always cries and blame others and complain that:

• Bad things happen to him
• Bad things happen often
• They are always involved
• Someone or something always to blame

    There are so many ways to abstain from a distracted driver run into the behind of your car. You can pass it earlier or later or you can change the way or you can call your friend at your home. Ask yourself on every encounter or event "What can you do to reduce your chances of it happening again or ensure that it want happen again?"

So every disaster that happens is just because of you. Success is not something that happens to you but it is something that happens because of you.
Stop blaming others and continue on. "Don't be a little bitch and take responsibility."

Blaming destiny is a poor out for those who don't reach desired destination